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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition on Worries!
I'll introduce you today's guests. Please welcome...
Mamamoo's Solar, Moon Byul, Whee In, and Hwa Sa!
(The complete Mamamoo is here.)
- Hello, we are Mamamoo. - Hello, we are Mamamoo.
- What did you just do, Dong Yeob? - What did you do?
Among all the girl group greetings,
- I love Mamamoo's the best. - It's nice.
- I thought he was part of them too. - Really?
Should we try it? Should we try it again?
- Okay. - All right.
(Mamamoo)
(It feels sexy when he says it.)
Good job.
(Dong Yeob never disappoints us.)
They are the most wanted group for college festivals.
- Festivals? - These days,
- we go to a lot of festivals. - I'm sure.
How many festivals did you attend this spring?
I think we went to about 15 to 16 festivals.
- Are those all college festivals? - Yes.
- It's only May now. - It's...
We don't like our performances being formal.
We love communicating...
- with the audience. - Right.
We love doing things with the audience.
- You're good with words. - That's why we're loved.
We are not popular even if we do that.
We used to go to many college festivals too.
But we don't get anymore gigs now.
You used to go to many festivals in the past.
- Now, you're almost as old as their deans. - Right.
Yes.
We got three stories again. Show us the keywords.
"Smoke-stained Life", "I'm Mr. Nanny".
"Please Come Back".
Is there really someone like this these days?
This is "Smoke-stained Life".
Hello. I'm a housewife, married for nine years.
A lot of people wear a mask because of fine dust.
- But I have to wear a mask at home. - Goodness.
The moment I step inside the house...
"Gosh, it smells!"
(Coughing)
At home, I'm exposed to danger 24 hours a day.
My husband smokes...
at various places in the house.
No way.
- Who does that these days? - When I go inside...
When I go inside the bathroom, I hold my breath...
and quickly get my business done.
But there's something more problematic about this.
"Mom, my nose stings, and my head spins."
We have small children at home.
"Honey, can you smoke outside for the children?"
"This is my house, and I can do whatever I want!"
What?
"In the old days, everyone smoked inside the house."
He doesn't listen to me at all.
I've been putting up with this for nine years now.
I've come here out of desperation.
Please save my children and I.
(Please save my family.)
- This is... - This is unbelievable.
What do you think about this story?
My uncle, my grandmother,
and other elders used to smoke inside the house.
If you think about it,
- everyone did that. - Right.
There was an ash tray...
- inside every bus. - Yes.
- There was. - Even in the airplanes.
- Even in the airplanes. - On the back of each chair.
There was an ash tray on the back of each chair.
Inside a train, each chair had one.
At the time, we weren't aware about the danger...
- of secondhand smoke. - We didn't know.
But now it's considered a life-and-death problem.
Let's bring her in.
- Please come on out. - Please come on out.
(Who is the wife of this inconsiderate husband?)
Hello
(Jo Jung Eun)
Hello
(Welcome)
Does your husband really smoke inside the house?
- No way. - Master bedroom, living room,
bathroom. He smokes everywhere.
- That's crazy. - That's unheard of.
He's been in-between jobs for three months now.
Does he stay home all the time? - Yes.
Yes. So...
- except for the time when he sleeps, - He smokes.
the house is always filled with cigarette smoke.
- Poor kids. - Does he really smoke...
when children are around? I doubt he does.
No, he does smoke.
(No, he does smoke.)
My daughter is 9 years old, and my son is 5 months old.
- He's only 5 months old. - 5 months old?
He thinks smoking inside our room with the door shut...
is being considerate for the children.
- He smokes in your room. - Yes, with the door shut.
But because it's smoke, it comes out...
- through the cracks. - Right.
It stings our noses and...
What did he do when you were pregnant?
- Even when I was pregnant... - No way.
He smoked in the house even when I was pregnant.
That's unbelievable.
It's just what he does.
He doesn't care about different situations.
- These days, fine dust pollution is serious, - Yes.
so you can't open the windows to ventilate the house.
There's a rooftop on top of our unit.
Why doesn't he smoke on the rooftop then?
I tell him that, but he says that...
it's his house and he should do whatever he wants.
He also says everyone smoked inside in the old days.
- That's the old days. - Right.
He should go back to the old days then.
During the day, he smokes while using the computer.
- In the evening, we sleep in that room. - I'm sure.
- Do the kids sleep there too? - Yes.
The bedding absorbs the cigarette smell,
so everything smells like cigarette.
I wash the sheets once in every four days,
- but it still smells. - It must smell.
Whenever I go outside with the children,
- the house becomes... - It's his world.
- his own world. - He must smoke everywhere.
Yes. When I come home,
there are cigarette ashes in the sink, drain,
and the sink in the bathroom. They are everywhere.
- Does he use the sink as ashtray? - Yes.
- When I come home and... - Why is he so bold?
- He must be mad. - go to the kitchen to cook,
- I see ashes everywhere. - What on earth...
Your husband came with you, right?
Yes. He didn't mind coming here at all.
Let's meet him and find out what's wrong with him.
Hello.
Hello. I am Yang Jin Hyuk. I'm 37 years old.
He's young.
Is what she said all true?
Do you really smoke everywhere in the house?
Yes. I smoke in the master bedroom, bathroom,
and everywhere else.
But honestly, isn't this problem too trivial for this?
No, it's not. Look.
You have children. Don't you think...
your family will be in pain because of this?
I am the breadwinner of the family.
I used to smoke two packs a day,
but I reduced it to one and a half packs a day.
When I smoke in the master bedroom, I turn on...
the fan and face it towards the window.
I try to be more considerate.
But there is a rooftop right on top of your unit.
You can just go up and smoke all you want.
But I have to step out of the house. I'm lazy.
And why would I do that? I'm the breadwinner.
- What's wrong? - It's just...
- Are you enraged? - I can't understand him.
- We all can't. - We can't either.
You smoked even when your wife was pregnant.
- I know. - That's really bad.
- Right. - I didn't smoke in front of her.
I've been smoking in the house for nine years.
Of course nobody would smoke...
while patting his pregnant wife's tummy. That's crazy.
I was raised by my grandmother.
And she smoked.
All my uncles and aunts grew up fine.
I think I don't have to worry too much.
You're aware that cigarette is bad for your lungs.
- Yes, I am aware of that. - Right.
Don't you know that secondhand smoke is just as bad?
- My daughter is nine years old. - Okay.
But she runs, and she's healthy.
There's nothing wrong with her.
- Do you want to fight? - Seriously.
It seems like he's not aware at all about...
the danger of second-hand smoking.
It seems he's not aware of it.
He smokes all the time,
and he rarely washes his hands after smoking.
Our son is five months old, as I previously said.
He touches the baby's face and hugs him.
- He's mad. - Our daughter is...
suffering from rhinitis.
Her bronchial tubes are weak.
When we should have an air purifier in the house,
her father is smoking in the house.
My daughter loves to walk while holding his hand.
- He holds her... - He holds her.
- He holds her with one hand. - Right.
And he holds cigarette with another hand.
- Goodness. - He walks down the streets like that.
He smokes while walking with his daughter.
Yes. He says who's to mind it when he wants to..
smoke while holding his own daughter's hand.
He doesn't think there's anything wrong with it.
Your child is suffering from rhinitis and is weak.
Shouldn't you be more careful?
She's been fine so far.
Like I said earlier, my grandmother...
- What does it have to do with her? - Why does he...
Let me ask you something.
Is it okay if your daughter grows up and smokes?
(She stares at him.)
(He doesn't know what to say.)
See?
You justify your action because you like smoking.
But you don't want your daughter to smoke.
Do you feel sorry to your family?
Not really. I just hope they understand.
(This man is unbelievable.)
Let's talk to their daughter about what she thinks.
- Hello. - Hello.
You are adorable.
- Hello. - Please introduce yourself.
I am Yang Bo Bae, and I'm nine years old.
Hello.
Why do you think you are here?
I think I'm here because my dad smokes.
- Right? - How much does he smoke?
Does he keep smoking?
In a day, he smokes more than five times.
She sees him smoking at least five times a day.
Have you ever told him strongly...
to stop smoking?
- I have. - What did your dad say?
He said he can't live without cigarettes.
Tell him to choose between you and cigarette.
- Tell him that. - Ask him now.
Is it me or the cigarette?
Of course it's Bo Bae.
Then why can't you stop smoking?
Tell him that he's an addict.
You are not too worried about smoking.
Is your health all right?
It's still fine.
Have you ever gotten a health checkup?
- No, never. - Why did you never get it?
You only live once.
If I get sick, I'll just be sick.
- I'll just go with the flow. - What?
You only live once,
but your wife and children live once too.
Why do you do harm to them?
- It's YOLO. - You only live once.
- It's YOLO. - YOLO.
(He's the bad example of it.)
I never thought I was doing harm to them.
Do you want me to do you some serious harms?
- I feel sad. - We took him...
to a clinic and checked his health.
Let's check the video.
We're going to do a urinalysis.
Please fill it with your urine up to this line.
(He gets a cotinine test.)
Some people fill the cup more than necessary.
They over-fill their cup...
and the urine overflows as they carry the cup.
The average cotinine level of...
average smokers is in the 900ng range.
But Mr. Yang's level is over 2,000ng.
(His cotinine level is over 2,000ng.)
(The test result says it's 2,140ng.)
That's more than double of the average.
So if he continues to smoke like this,
there is no doubt he will suffer from...
cardiovascular problems in the near future.
Also, he will be more exposed to...
different kinds of cancer such as lung cancer.
When a child is exposed to second-hand smoking,
the child will be prone to getting asthma,
and bacterial diseases.
It increases the chance of cardiovascular problems too.
When the child grows up,
the child will have a higher chance of developing...
conditions such as diabetes and heart problems.
So I strongly recommend Mr. Yang to quit smoking.
We were short on time,
so we couldn't get him a more detailed checkup.
He only had a urinalysis.
It showed...
his nicotine level is twice that of regular smokers.
That wasn't even the full analysis.
How does it feel to watch the video?
Jung Eun is crying.
It makes me worried to hear that from a doctor.
When I worry about his health,
my husband says,
"Then I will die."
- What? - He says that I don't need to worry...
since he has life insurance.
- That's ridiculous. - It's an irresponsible remark.
Your cotinine level was twice that of average smokers.
The result must be similar for your daughter and wife.
For children, secondhand smoke is as bad as smoking.
It can impair lungs' defense mechanisms...
and cause asthma and lung diseases.
What do you think about that?
In my experiences,
not much harm has been done.
It's not like my daughter is sick.
She is nine years old. She is healthy.
The doctor said secondhand smoke is harmful.
It has been scientifically proven.
It's very irresponsible for you to ignore it...
- based on your experiences. - That's right.
It's wrong and ignorant.
Is he a perfect husband besides his smoking habit?
- Is he considerate? - His smoking habit...
is only the beginning.
- What? - Are there more?
Is this the beginning?
I was once sick with flu.
I was so sick that I sent him a text.
"I am sorry, but I will go to bed first."
"Come home and sleep." I sent him the text.
He bought something from the convenience store...
and woke me up.
"Hey, hey." He usually calls me, "Hey."
- "Hey, hey." - Does he call you "Hey"?
- Yes, he does. - Then you should say,
"What, what?"
He said, "Heat this up."
- What was it? - It was a hamburger.
You only need to microwave it.
- Since I was very sick, - For goodness' sake.
I said, "You should heat it up."
Then he said, "I bought a snack..."
"that is easy to prepare to be considerate."
"Can't you do this much?" And he threw it on the wall.
Did he throw the hamburger on the wall?
- Yes, he did. - It must have flew everywhere.
Yes. He threw other snacks, too.
Why do you make your wife work when she is sick?
I only wanted her to heat it up while I wash up,
but she became irritable.
She was sick.
She wasn't sick enough to become hospitalized.
Don't you know how to use a microwave?
- I do. - Then you could have put it inside,
- washed up, - You can wash up afterwards.
and eaten.
I take off my clothes and go straight to the bathroom.
I was overcome with anger.
I was home after a day of hard work.
Couldn't she do that much? I lost my temper.
After I threw the snacks,
I didn't let her clean them up.
I told her to clean them up the next day on purpose.
- On purpose? - I know why he did that.
He must have done it as a sign of forgiveness.
Am I right?
- No, I forbade her to clean up on purpose. - Why?
- Why? - He threw the snacks in anger.
He wanted his wife to reflect on her wrongdoing.
(My goodness.)
- That's scary. - I got goosebumps.
"This will happen again if you misbehave."
"Okay?" Was it a warning?
I don't know if it's wrong to think this, but...
(What does he think?)
Men and women are meant to do different tasks.
She should have heated up the hamburger.
He thinks there are tasks for women.
Calm down, everyone.
He is the worst.
I have a question. Let's say Jung Eun does as you do.
Let's say she smokes at home in front of the children.
Let's say she smokes as she does the dishes, cooks,
- and watches TV. - Don't be mad.
- Would you be okay with it? - Would you?
Let's say she blows smoke rings as she watches a drama.
(She can make smoke rings instead of a hamburger.)
- That will be a grand sight. - He's so funny.
It doesn't suit the Korean values.
- What? - She is my wife.
Of course she shouldn't smoke in front of children.
It's not something that is acceptable in Korea.
Can she start smoking when she becomes a grandmother?
I haven't thought about that.
My goodness.
(My goodness.)
- Seriously. - He is only 37 years old.
- What is wrong with him? - He is...
too patriarchal. Has he always been that way?
He seems like someone who experienced the Korean War...
even though he is only 37 years old.
At home, he says, "Bring me water."
Even when there is a remote control next to him,
he asks me without looking.
"Where is the remote control?" "It's next to you."
"Where is the remote control?"
- It's not just the smoking habit. - He does that.
- There are a lot of things. - He does that often.
- What else? - He asks me to put socks on him.
- He asks you to put socks on him? - Yes.
- What is he, a baby? - He stretches out his feet.
(Put socks on my outstretched feet.)
It looks like...
Jung Eun is a slave.
"Men are the sky, women are the earth."
You think your wife is beneath you, right?
Do you think that way?
Wouldn't there be a difference?
What difference? You don't think she is your equal.
Equal?
I think men are above women.
Why?
- What's the reason? - My goodness.
Is it because you work?
Since men work outside,
I think it's right that they are prioritized.
- What is wrong with him? - If your wife...
-works, - He is strange.
will you treat her as your equal?
Even if she works,
she would naturally be beneath me.
Why?
What's the reason?
- I don't know. - For an example,
did you father rule over your mother?
No, he didn't.
(It wasn't like that with his parents.)
He says men and women are on different levels.
- He always says that. - What are your thoughts?
He never lets me do what he does.
Give us an example.
He drinks and sleeps outside...
about 200 days out of 365 days.
He did that when we were newlyweds.
- He sleeps outside? - Did he sleep outside?
- 200 days? - 200 days?
- We were newlyweds. - You are saying he did that...
- 200 days out of 365 days. - He was proud of it.
He practically lived away from home.
- You were newlyweds. - How could he do that?
Where did he sleep?
He said he slept at his friend's place and sauna.
He says he fixed the habit,
but he still does it once or twice a month.
When I try to go out and meet my friends,
he says that a woman shouldn't leave her children.
There were times I couldn't go out.
I have never met anyone who is worse than me.
You smoke all you want.
I have never met anyone who is worse than me.
You meet friends all you want.
Why do you forbid your wife from going out?
I don't forbid her from going out.
She can meet up with her friends and have a lunch.
What will she do with her friends at 9pm?
It doesn't look good for a woman to drink.
You drink and sleep outside.
You do that 200 days a year.
I treat those around me...
for networking purposes.
Can't your wife network?
She should do it during the day.
Housewives have a lot of free time during the day.
She can meet her friends then.
Among husbands who were on Hello,
he is the top.
Aren't you worried about repercussions?
Seriously.
Those who are here...
should meet someone who treats them nicely.
(Devastated)
- They don't have to blame me. - What are you saying?
- He is the worst. - I got goosebumps.
- He is scary. - What are you saying?
Are you saying it's your wife's fault for meeting you?
Are you saying it's her fate?
That's right.
(It got worse.)
- I... - Did you know...
- he is like that? - It's not anyone else's business.
I am curious about that, too.
(Did she not know about her husband's true colors?)
He was very caring when we dated.
(My goodness.)
- My goodness. - He held my hand everywhere.
He was caring in every way.
That's why I decided to marry him.
Did he change suddenly?
He changed right after the wedding.
(He changed right after the wedding.)
(It's the scariest story.)
- That's scary. - He changed suddenly.
- Yes. - It's like a horror film.
Let's talk to someone who is close to them.
- Hello. It's nice to meet you. - Hello.
- Hello. - Please introduce yourself.
I am Jung Eun's brother, Sung Eun.
How did it feel to hear everything?
I knew Jung Eun was worried about his smoking habit,
but I didn't know about everything else.
What kind of a person was he to you?
Whenever he comes to my parents' place,
he treats my parents and I very nicely.
That's why...
I had no idea.
Now that I think about it,
there were moments that should have given me a clue.
What moments?
He would wake my sister...
from her sleep...
and ask her to get him water and tissue paper.
Didn't your sister complain about him at home?
She isn't the type...
to whine about something.
- She didn't say anything. - No.
She tends to bottle up her emotions.
Since you are here,
please say something to your brother-in-law.
I learned many things I didn't know before.
I hope you will smoke less.
Also,
your family is having...
financial struggles.
It's great that things are looking up.
My sister doesn't even wear makeup.
She tries to save money every way that she can.
My goodness.
(Seeing his sister brings tears to his eyes.)
My goodness.
He wanted his sister to be happy.
(He wanted his sister to be happy.)
He must feel bad.
You drink and go shopping often.
You spend a lot of money.
(I am sad and angry.)
I am sorry.
All right.
I hope you will do it less.
Seriously.
Please be a good son-in-law to my parents,
a good brother-in-law to me,
a good husband to my sister,
and a good father to my niece and nephew.
My goodness.
(Touched)
What is your wife to you?
She is someone I am thankful for.
She raised the children well.
If you are thankful, listen to her small wishes.
She didn't ask you to stop smoking. Smoke upstairs.
I have my reasons.
Like you have said,
the rooftop is right upstairs.
I worked as a mailman for almost 10 years.
On many occasions,
I ran up and down 30 apartments a day.
If you think about it...
Others say that the rooftop is right upstairs,
but it's annoying to me. Why must I go up?
Then go down.
Is that your excuse?
We understand...
- that you hate it, - Then go down.
but it's not a matter others can withstand.
Your habit is connected to your family's health.
The people you love hate it.
At first, I was angry.
I thought he was addicted to smoking.
Then I heard more and realized that...
- he lacks consideration. - That's right.
He is extremely selfish.
What do you hate the most in the world?
I have a weak stomach.
- You have a weak stomach. - Yes.
I hate fishy smell.
In that case,
how would you feel...
if other people force you to smell something fishy?
I would get irritated and leave.
In the same way,
(Then he should understand.)
your wife can get irritated and leave the house.
I haven't thought about that.
You haven't, right? You think it won't happen...
because your wife is someone beneath you...
who listens to your every command.
That's why you believe that way.
We prepared fish to make you suffer.
(We prepared fish to make you suffer.)
(That's great.)
- Really? - You should smell it.
- Really? - I knew I smelled something fishy.
Come here. Come up to the stage.
You can smoke a cigarette here.
Come here.
(She comes to get him.)
(Yeong Ja is on the move.)
Come here.
- It's grilled nicely. - It won't take long.
It won't take long.
(They bring out fish.)
Come here.
- It's grilled nicely. - It won't take long.
It won't take long.
It smells fishy to me, too.
- My goodness. - The smell is strong.
(It smells very fishy.)
It smells very fishy.
Salted fish smell the worst.
Come here.
It's spiny-head croaker.
Come here.
He became tense.
- Try it. - Try it.
Try it.
Come here.
It's not harmful to your health.
I don't eat fish.
This is entertaining.
Why can't you eat it?
It's delicious.
Why can't you eat it? For goodness' sake.
Try it.
It's good.
(He now knows how his wife feels.)
Your family is smelling something as foul...
in the bathroom and living room.
Watch this.
At least fish is good for health.
(Moving)
At least fish is good for health.
You can escape by going to the rooftop. Hurry up.
Hurry up and go to the rooftop.
(Fish smell works like a miracle.)
(He runs towards stairs.)
We had to do this...
to make him realize his wrongdoing.
We prepared this for him.
What do you hate more,
smell of fish or cigarette?
Smell of cigarette.
How did it feel to smell something you hate?
I hated it.
Let's say your wife asks you to understand...
because she can't live without fish.
She says everyone ate fish back in the days.
(He finally walks in his wife's shoes.)
Why don't you promise not to smoke at home?
They say you die if you change at once.
- You won't die. - You won't die.
You won't die.
You will die if you smoke a lot.
(Chan Woo is the best.)
- Promise to your daughter. - Make a promise.
At home...
A man shouldn't go back on his words.
I won't smoke.
Promise to your daughter.
That's right.
(Pinky promise)
He said he won't smoke at home.
Say what you want to say to him.
Please keep your promise not to smoke at home.
Even if you say mean things,
I know that you are a good man.
I hope that we will live happily...
with Bo Bae and Tae Yang...
and look after our parents.
I hope you will love me more.
(Be happy, Jung Eun.)
The guests will have a vote.
It's a worry.
I hope you would start treating your wife...
more nicely.
I also think it's a worry.
I believe childhood memories play a big role...
in the period of development.
That's why I am worried about what...
his children will learn.
I also think it's a worry.
It will be nice if he improves little by little.
Let's go.
I think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Please say a few words to your wife and daughter.
Jung Eun, I haven't treated you well in the past.
Now that I am here, I will try to change my ways.
Say something to your daughter.
It's important.
Bo Bae, I will keep my promise, okay? subtitles ripped and synced by riri13
I love you.
(They hold hands.)
Show us how many votes the worry received.
"Smoke-stained Life".
The last digit is one.
(What will be the result?)
It got over 100 votes.
I think it will be 171.
191.
We never had 191 votes.
(171 votes)
"I'm Mr. Nanny".
Hello, I am a grandpa who will soon turn 70.
I haven't shared my inner thoughts my entire life.
I am sending a worry...
since suppressing myself further will make me collapse.
I am solely responsible...
for raising my grandson.
He is a grandpa.
This is what my daughter says.
"Dad, make baby food and feed it to him."
"Dad, he pooped. Please change his diaper."
"Dad, he is crying. Hurry up and hold him."
"You should look after your own baby."
"Can't you do this much? Hurry up and help me."
He should smoke.
It will solve the problem.
She bosses me around shamelessly.
She even yells at me...
while she sits on the sofa and watches TV.
"Dad, wake up."
"Why are you waking me up so early in the morning?"
"He keeps crying. Please put him to sleep."
"I am going back to my room."
It doesn't matter if it's 3am or 4am.
She gives me the crying baby and disappears.
I spent my entire life looking after my children.
It's hard to raise my grandson, too.
Please help me live comfortably in my old age.
(Please help me live comfortably in my old age.)
- This is... - This is new.
- We had similar worries from grandmas. - Right.
I was raised by my grandma.
- I see. - We lived together.
We were practically friends.
That's how close we were.
The two of you were practically friends.
(What's up, Grandma?)
Grandma.
It must be hard.
I am sure he has a son-in-law, too.
He must be suffering greatly to send a worry.
Please come on out.
(Who is raising his grandson alone?)
(Gentlemanly)
(Kang Ho Young)
(Welcome)
He is a gentleman.
I haven't seen anyone slide down so gentlemanly.
(He walks with dignity.)
You have to look after the baby...
because you live with your daughter, right?
My wife and I live on the fourth floor.
My daughter lives one floor above us.
- She lives on the fifth floor. - I see.
My grandson is 19 months old.
I go upstairs at 9am...
and come home at 5pm.
That's when your daughter gets out of work.
- No, my daughter doesn't work. - What?
- She doesn't work. - Why does she require your help?
- She doesn't work. - That doesn't make sense.
(She asks you to look after her baby with no job?)
She just watches TV on couch and chats on the phone.
Raise your hand if you thought she had a job.
- Everyone thought... - Of course, they did.
- she had a job. - We all thought...
- she had a job. - This is unbelievable.
- She's... - This really is a worry.
What do you do from 9am?
- I can't understand her. - She asks me to...
- change a diaper saying the baby pooped. - Okay.
- She asks me to bathe him. - To bathe him.
After I bathe and put clothes on him,
she asks me to cook baby food.
I have no choice but to do so.
What does your daughter do while you're doing that?
- She watches TV... - All day long?
and chats with her friends on the phone.
His daughter is amazing.
Are you done at 5pm?
- No, that's not the end. - What?
While I'm resting at home, she calls me.
She says, "He pooped. Please come over right now."
- Babies poop all the time. - Right.
While I'm sleeping at night,
she asks me to put the baby to sleep.
- Then, I go to her house. - Do you put him to sleep?
Yes, I have to play with him until he falls asleep.
(Poor me.)
Why do you help her, not your wife?
My wife is helping...
our oldest daughter who has two children.
(She's looking after their oldest daughter's babies.)
Both our oldest daughter and her husband have a job.
- They both have a job? - That's understandable.
I can understand her because she has to work.
I don't understand my youngest daughter.
- That's why you're here. - She thinks...
- I have to help her. - It's because you're her dad.
What does her husband do?
- I wonder that too. - My youngest son-in-law is...
six years younger than my daughter.
- She married a younger man. - He just got a job,
so he has to work on weekends too.
He doesn't have much time to look after his baby.
This is what I always don't understand.
You can just refuse it. Why do you help her?
I once went out instead of helping her.
- You did? - I had a drink with my friends.
- You went out. - While I was having a drink,
she called me and asked what I was doing.
I said, "I'm having a drink. Why do you ask?"
She said, "Dad, I'm drinking coffee."
- "My baby is running around and is so loud." - I see.
- She called him to the cafe. - She called him over.
- While he was drinking? - What did you do?
I went to the cafe and took my grandson home.
- Did you go to the cafe? - Yes, I did.
- You're too generous. - My goodness.
- I have a soft spot for her. - Because he's her dad.
- I can't refuse to help her. - You provided cause.
Let's meet with his daughter who made him...
- My goodness. - work too hard. Hello.
Hello.
(Who is his daughter who makes him look after her son?)
Let me ask you a straightforward question.
Why do you always ask him to look after your baby?
I'm not very skilled at looking after a baby,
but my dad is good at it.
So I trust him with my baby.
No mom is good at it at first.
You can improve over time.
You don't have a job.
It's not that I never watch my baby.
- I watch him look after baby. - Pardon?
(My goodness.)
- She says she watches them. - Then...
What do you... Why do you watch him?
What do you do?
There are some things he can't do well.
I explain to him every step in doing it...
so he can do it well.
- Then do it yourself. - What is he not good at?
What is he not good at?
For example,
he doesn't sterilize baby spoons and bottles.
I told him about it, but he still didn't do it.
- I told him he should sterilize the bottle. - Gosh.
- What else? - He also fed my baby...
fried potato, chips, and even spicy fried chicken.
My baby is not old enough to eat them.
- He's not old enough to eat them. - My dad fed him.
Your dad is not young enough to look after a baby.
(He's right!)
If you know all that, why don't you do it yourself?
My dad is good with babies.
He plays with my baby well.
- You know better than him. - That's ridiculous.
Director, why do you select difficult cases these days?
Why did you do that?
We are repeating...
- That's right. - the same conversation.
- She's just like the previous guest. - Exactly.
If you don't trust him, don't let him watch your son.
I can't do that.
- Why? - My son likes my dad so much.
- Your baby became attached to him... - Goodness.
because your dad spent a lot of time with him.
- Of course. - They look like best friends.
It's good to see them get along well with each other.
And you just watch them?
- That's right. - My goodness.
It's been a long day today.
- Oh, gosh. - The previous guest...
in the audience doesn't seem to understand her either.
"What's wrong with her?"
He kept looking like that.
- He looked like he couldn't understand. - "Gosh."
- Oh, my. - He would never understand her.
We asked him to bring some photos of him...
looking after his grandson.
Let's see those photos first.
- He's bathing the baby. - He's cute.
- How cute. - His daughter took this photo, right?
- She must watch them from that angle. - I have to.
- How adorable. - He's so cute.
- He's so cute. - He's feeding the baby.
- He looks so half-hearted. - Right.
- He looks half-hearted. - He looks spiritless.
- He's playing with the baby. - Is she playing?
My goodness.
(Leaving her son to her dad,)
(while she's playing with her phone.)
- It's shocking. - Why would she do that?
- This is a very unusual case. - It's sad.
- Look at his face. - He looks so half-hearted.
(Who am I? Where am I?)
Look at his face.
He's exhausted.
Look at that.
- He looks so sad. - He fell asleep.
- He's so cute. - He's so tired.
(She's smiling cheerfully.)
When you see your dad like that,
don't you feel sorry for him?
No, I feel great seeing them together.
There are good things about it.
However, he has to do that every day,
not once in a while.
(He wants to cry as he has to do it every day.)
I have a question. She makes her dad do a lot of work.
I wonder if she gives him a lot of allowance.
- Of course. - I'm sure she gives him allowances.
- She doesn't give me a dime. - What?
She doesn't even pay you?
I'm the one who gives her money.
- She asks for allowances? - You give her allowances?
- I give her allowances. - What?
- For letting you watch her son? - That's ridiculous.
She even lives in the house I own,
so she doesn't pay for electricity...
- or gas bill. - My goodness.
She even tells me when she runs out of rice.
- Rice? - Then, I buy a bag of rice for her.
You buy her rice too.
That's not all. She craves a lot of food.
"Buy me fried chicken. Buy me jokbal."
I have to buy her that because I'm her parent.
I can't say no to her.
It's as if she's a little girl.
As she lives downstairs, I just buy her food.
Why didn't you come on the show earlier?
- Usually, in a case like this, - My goodness.
- people give their parents allowance. - They should.
It's the right thing to do.
My dad refuses to receive allowances.
Also, because he's quite well off,
I depend on him a little.
Have you ever given him an allowance?
- Of course, I have. - How much did you give him?
About 200 dollars.
- It was... - He refused it because it's too little.
- on his birthday. - I would refuse it too.
(She's trying to recall the memory.)
I gave him once on his birthday.
Once on his birthday?
- Just once? - That's a birthday gift.
- That's a gift. - I wish she was putting on an act.
- Monthly allowance. - Have you given him money...
- just to show your gratitude? - No, not once.
Do you think...
that you are immature?
I heard people feel lonely as their children grow up.
So I'm staying as an immature daughter...
to prevent him from feeling lonely.
You've gone too far though.
- That's too much. - So I...
If I act mature in front of my dad,
and he doesn't have to help me,
he might feel like he's too old.
- That's why. - Are you saying that you ask him...
for help to be a good daughter?
- That's one of the reasons. - No way.
(I'm being a good daughter.)
She says she acts like that to be a good daughter.
This might sound ridiculous,
but what if she lived with the smoking husband?
(They would make the worst couple.)
Let's meet with his son-in-law...
who is six years younger than his daughter.
- Hello. - Hello.
You must be in an awkward position. Have you...
told your wife to look after the baby herself?
Of course, I have.
She said she's weak because she's a woman,
- Did she say that? - and it's time for men...
to look after babies because they're strong.
- That's what she said. - I see.
You could've given him allowances, at least.
I once gave him an allowance,
but he gave it back. We opened our son's bank account.
- He sent the money to his account. - Oh, my.
He's such a great grandfather.
(He's an affectionate dad and grandfather.)
How did you meet your wife?
- We worked at the same company. - I see.
- She was my superior. - Then...
What did you like about her?
Exactly. I want to know what her charms are.
I liked the way she controlled me.
My goodness.
(Leading the way is the best thing about older women.)
- She gives him orders too. - He must like it.
Did you find it attractive?
You fell in love and ended up marrying her.
Haven't you thought she's trying to...
control you at home too?
After we got married, I tried to win the upper hand,
but it wasn't easy.
(He's destined to be led by her forever.)
Let's meet with her mom this time.
- Hello. - Hello. Welcome.
Hello.
You look after your oldest daughter's children.
It must be hard. How do you feel?
Our oldest daughter is completely opposite to her.
- She tries to do things on her own. - I see.
- Even though she's working? - Yes.
- She comes home around 7pm. - Okay.
It takes one and a half hours to travel both ways...
- between her house and mine. - That's far.
- Oh, my. - It's tiring to take a bus every day.
It's more tiring than doing household chores.
When I come home, I need to eat...
and take a shower,
but she calls me.
Who?
She calls me over.
- Your youngest daughter does? - Yes.
Then, I have to go to her house.
There are so many things to do there.
I change a diaper, clean her house, wash dishes,
and clean the bathroom.
I have to wait until my son-in-law comes back.
When he comes back, I go back home.
What does she do while you're cleaning the house?
She watches TV and chats on the phone.
That's all she does.
Why do you do all that for her?
She's been spoiled since she was a child,
and she's not good at household chores.
She never works at home, so I have to do it for her.
You should leave it until she does it on her own.
- It became a habit when she was a child. - Yes.
- You and your husband caused it. - Yes.
It seems absurd to us,
but she must have her reasons. Let's hear her.
If they leave it, I would clean the house,
- but they clean the house before I do. - Okay.
So I miss the chance to clean the house sometimes.
- You miss the chance? - Yes.
Then, why would you call her over to your house...
when she's about to take a rest...
after working at your sister's house?
I have my reasons for that.
After I gave birth to my baby,
I was diagnosed with preinvasive carcinoma.
I had the surgery just a few months ago.
The doctor told me to be very careful.
So I stayed in bed. When I moved a little,
I bled so much that I was taken to the emergency room.
Since my mom and dad know that I had the surgery,
when they help me with the household chores,
I think it's because I had the surgery.
It's understandable.
You said you had the surgery recently,
- and your parents know that. - Yes.
You didn't ask them for help before the surgery, right?
I asked them for help before that too.
What?
It was the same before then though.
- What's that? - That's ridiculous.
(It means that it was only an excuse.)
- It's just an excuse. - That's ridiculous.
As I was hearing...
She means that she was born with a weak body.
Listening to the 1st and the 2nd stories,
I feel like I just lost a few years of my life.
(I feel like I just lost a few years of my life.)
After she had the surgery, the doctor said...
that she could get back to her daily activities,
and she could eat anything she wanted.
I think that's why she thought it would be okay.
She went out for a drink after the surgery.
- After the surgery? - Oh, I see.
She went out for a drink instead of watching her child.
While she was out, her baby became sick.
- I guess he had fever. - He had fever and coughed.
So I called my daughter.
I told her to come home early since her son was sick.
She said he was fine before she left.
She didn't come home.
So I took my grandson to the hospital.
- To the emergency room? - Yes.
Why didn't you go home when your baby was sick?
Since it was late, I thought he was trying to...
- make me come home early. - You thought he lied.
He told me that he took my son to the hospital.
So I said sorry.
My goodness.
Why did you drink when you just had a cancer surgery?
I met my friends from college who are single.
We met after a long time, so we had a few drinks.
We drank until it was late at night.
I didn't want to leave first.
I didn't want to be different because I have a child.
You didn't want to ruin the mood?
- I see what you mean. - I didn't want to say...
that I have to go home early because I have a child.
But you called your dad over when he was drinking.
- Yes, I did. - Right.
He drank a lot already.
- He needs to cut down on it. - Gosh.
- I can drink on his behalf. - I see.
- This is "Selfish People Special". - My goodness.
(It's frustrating to have a conversation with her.)
- This is "Selfish People Special". - My goodness.
(Be ready for "Selfish People Special".)
I'm speechless.
Mamamoo members, you are women as well.
Now that you've heard her story,
how do you feel?
I have a soft spot for my parents.
Since I was a child, I saw them...
working too hard.
Even though I've grown up, when I hear about them,
I start to cry. That's how I feel about them.
As her parents worked very hard to raise her,
she should let them take a rest.
That's how people normally feel.
Right. I hate her. I hate her so much.
Show her your scary face.
(I hope you will become mature.)
- Did you see that? - Gosh.
I feel so...
I feel so frustrated and feel like I'm going crazy.
Whenever we say something, she gives an excuse.
- She thinks nothing's wrong about it. - Exactly.
I don't know what to do.
- She feels like a wall. - Don't hold your fists.
It feels like we're talking to a wall.
She doesn't understand what we say.
From my perspective,
- you should change first. - That's right.
- You should be strict to her. - You should let go.
Why don't you let her look after her son?
I don't think I can trust her with him yet.
- Why? - Why?
He was born in the seventh month.
- He was only 1.18kg when he was born. - Oh, my.
The doctor said...
- that he might not be able to walk. - Really?
He learned to walk and use his hands.
Those matters have been resolved.
However, he's not good at speaking yet,
and he hits his head on the wall when he's upset.
- When things don't go his way? - That's right.
I don't think she can take good care of him yet.
My water broke all of a sudden and my labor started.
- I gave birth in the seventh month. - I see.
I had to recover when I wasn't ready.
By the time I came home with my son,
I had to remove a toenail in my right foot.
- A toenail? - Yes.
I had to remove it forcefully.
I couldn't walk for one month.
After that, I scraped my right heel.
A few months later, the skin in that area got thicker.
I had a surgery to remove the bulging skin.
So I wasn't in good condition.
That's why I asked my dad for help.
If you had been in good condition,
would you have looked after your son on your own?
- No, I wouldn't have. - See?
- You just made excuses. - Usually,
moms are very affectionate and attentive.
How can you leave your son to your dad all the time?
I don't understand that.
I'm a mom. It's not like I don't care about him.
However, I'm not strong enough to look after him.
My dad can help me with various chores.
I take care of the details.
When my baby starts moving forward in a lying position,
- it means he's bored. - I see.
Whenever he does that, I tell my dad he's bored...
and he should play with him.
You tell him to play with him?
(Everyone becomes angry.)
You can play with him by yourself.
I play with him a little as well.
Goodness. She's so peculiar.
(My head hurts.)
The husband we met before...
seemed to take advantage of his good wife.
You seem to take advantage of your parents too.
- I feel that way. - It seems...
that you still have the strong image of your dad...
and think you can always rely on him.
You think you can rely on your dad forever.
Don't you feel different from how you were in your 20s?
Yes, I feel different.
See? That's because you aged.
Likewise, your dad isn't as strong as he was before.
I think my dad is still very strong.
(I think my dad is still very strong.)
How does the oldest daughter think?
- How is your dad's health? - Is your dad healthy?
- My dad has hypertension. - I see.
He's been taking medication for a long time.
- He's taking medication? - Also, he has...
fainted at home.
Fortunately, the doctor said he was okay.
- He needs to take good care of himself. - Right.
Also, he had a knee surgery,
but his knee kept getting fluids.
- His knee? - Yes, his knee.
He was hospitalized...
- and had a surgery. - Is it that bad?
It tends to relapse,
so he needs to have the fluids removed.
He shouldn't work his knee too much.
He needs to use his knees a lot to watch her baby.
That's right. It would be better if he doesn't do that.
However, my sister is...
(His own daughter is smiling.)
- I hope... - When she told us...
she will help him from now on.
When she said that he fainted, you tilted your head.
Did you not know that?
I was in the US when he fainted.
I didn't know that he had fainted.
- Did you hear that for the first time? - Yes, I did.
- What about his knee condition? - I knew that.
His knee keeps getting fluids.
I think he has already fully recovered.
(Does she mean she'll keep asking for help?)
Think before you speak!
- He said he was okay too. - He even sent you abroad.
He said he was okay, so I thought he was.
(She has no idea of how I feel.)
Her mom looks very upset.
- From your perspective, - Please hand her the mic.
when do you feel sorry for him the most?
Sometimes he stays in the bedroom alone.
I wondered what he was doing in the dark.
I saw a bottle of alcohol.
(I saw a bottle of alcohol.)
And a shot glass. He drinks alone.
He drinks alone without turning the light on?
Yes, and he sighs while drinking.
(He sighs alone in the dark room.)
He sighs while drinking.
Why would he drink in the dark?
He always try not to express his emotions...
- when he's struggling. - He swallows his emotions.
Yes. He swallows his emotions.
When I see him like that, I can't say anything.
It breaks my heart.
- My goodness. - He's struggling so much.
Don't you feel sorry for him?
He's always been quiet.
I didn't know he was struggling because of me.
- Exactly. - Since you figured out today,
are you willing to change a bit?
I should put in some effort.
(It must have been really tough for him all this time.)
(The daughter still doesn't know how her dad feels.)
My question is, your daughter has no idea why you...
turn off the light, drink soju, and cry while sighing?
I'm old.
- You're 60? I see. - I'm 68.
I want to travel abroad.
- That's right. - I want to have fun too.
- That's it. - I want her to stop calling me...
so I can come home whenever I want to.
I want to go hiking too.
- He can't do any of that. - He can't do that.
He took care of his children all this time...
after moving from the country.
His family is finally better off after doing business.
- However, he's... - How frustrating.
What do you think about his comment?
Even though I'm saying this, I do feel bad for him.
- That's right. - I'm not very attentive to my dad.
I can see that.
I do feel grateful to him.
- What? - Wait.
- I do feel grateful. - That's not what I meant.
This is how your father thinks.
He drinks alcohol alone. If you feel grateful to him,
- do you intend to give him... - How frustrating.
a break so he can go hiking?
I do. It's because I lack physical strength...
and more.
Then hire a nanny since your husband gets paid.
Spend less money.
I don't want to leave my child with a stranger.
I don't feel comfortable because as I mentioned,
Seo Woo was born premature. She needs extra attachment.
- It's... - That's your role.
- You must do it. - Why hire a nanny? Do it yourself.
You can do it,
- but since you never did it, - She doesn't do it.
- you're afraid that you can't do it. - Exactly.
Also, you think there's no need to do so...
because you have your father.
In my opinion, both daughters...
actually need to meet and discuss the schedule.
You can't get total support like this.
- Of course not. - At least 2 or 3 times a week,
let your parents have some free time.
Look at your mom and dad.
- They have joint problems. - They have no life.
How brazen. You should have a meeting.
- He'll become sick one day. - I know.
Everyone becomes sick.
If you keep doing this, your father may...
fall ill before doing anything he wants.
He just said it.
What would he think when he drinks soju late at night?
Leave him alone at least when he meets his friends.
Let him go hiking.
You can look after your baby on those days.
Why can't you even do that?
You can't change everything right away, but...
promise him here that you won't call him...
when he's out with his friends.
Moms should change their babies' diapers.
Can you promise him here that you won't call him...
because of those reasons?
I'll try not to call you when you see your friends.
It's not "try". It should be "I won't call you."
- "I won't call you." - In your opinion,
- what are your wishes? - Go hiking.
- Even if she's upset now, - She thinks it's natural.
you should raise her like that from now on.
That's right.
- You should help her be on her own. - That's right.
Hye Ra, from now on,
don't call me when I go somewhere.
Please raise Seo Woo on your own.
Finally, I love you.
Oh, dear.
They're all natural remarks.
Hye Ra, even though you don't express a lot,
- Can I use it? - you'd love your dad...
- more than anyone in the world. - Oh, my.
Express that emotion today even if you're shy.
Say "Dad".
As you know, I'm a bit blunt,
so I don't speak in an attentive way.
My love for you has been the same since I was younger.
(Being sorry, Hye Ra burst into tears.)
It hasn't changed.
Also,
I love you too.
(I love you too, Dad.)
(Let's all put in effort no matter what.)
You've struggled with this story too.
Do you think it's a worry or not?
It was a time for me to feel my parents' love again.
I find him amazing.
I want you to take after him a lot.
Her mother cried while speaking,
but she remained expressionless...
and said, "I do feel grateful to him."
I think she lacks the ability...
to understand her dad's emotions.
What he wants is not something grand.
He just wants to travel and hike.
I felt really bad for him.
I learnt a great deal here today.
- The story made us reflect on ourselves. - Exactly.
We better be good to our parents.
If you sympathize with his worry, press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
Press the button.
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Time's up.
- "The Smoke-stained Life" got 171 votes. - Yes.
- It'd be hard... - It'd be hard to beat it.
- It's strong. - It's like a title of a book.
- Show us the result. - It's hilarious.
Will it beat 171 votes?
- It got over 100 votes for sure. - 115?
- He needs 175 votes. - 165 votes.
- 175 votes? - I see.
- 165 votes? - 165 votes?
- Is it 7 or 6? - 155?
It's 165 votes!
- That's right. - He lost by six votes.
I hope being on Hello today...
would help you to become a happier family.
Thank you.
(See you on "Hello News".)
The title is "Please Come Back".
Hello, I'm an ordinary head of household in his 30s.
There's a person with a muscular body,
unbelievable arms and legs,
and firm six-pack abs.
The one who only lives for fitness is...
- It is... - It is...
(Drum roll)
my wife.
(My wife is a body builder?)
(The power of my wife)
My wife is addicted to fitness.
Even when we go traveling, "1, 2, 1, 2 ,1, 2, 1, 2..."
"Goodness. Honey, what are you doing at dawn?"
"What do you think? I'm working out."
"1, 2, 1, 2, 1, 2."
Here's the biggest problem.
"Mom, can't you work out less and play with me?"
She's so addicted that her family's been pushed aside.
Me? I miss my wife so much who was once...
ordinary and feminine.
My wife is becoming more like Bruce Lee.
I'm so overwhelmed.
Please stop my wife.
(Please stop my wife!)
We'll invite him on the stage first.
Come on out.
(Who suffers because of his fitness addict wife?)
(Lim Jeong Hwan)
Hello.
(Hello)
How much does she work out?
In the beginning of our marriage,
she was nicely chubby.
She gained weight after having our first baby.
After having our second baby, she began working out.
She began collecting fitness equipment.
She works out at home.
- Yes, at home. - Home training.
- Yes. - It's popular nowadays.
At first, it was a 2kg dumbbell.
Then she got a gym ball this big,
a chin-up bar on the floor,
a bike, and a treadmill.
She recently asked me to buy a bench press machine.
You're basically describing a gym.
- Exactly. - Yes, it's a gym.
(Their house is like a gym.)
- Gosh. - Is she totally fit, then?
You could compare her...
to Bruce Lee.
- The female Bruce Lee. - She's...
"Honey!"
When she's dressed, she looks okay.
When she takes off her clothes, she has a six-pack,
She has a six-pack?
- Women... - She has a six-pack?
- She works out for five hours. - You want...
to see his wife with the six-pack, right?
We'll show her picture first.
Look at her lean muscles.
- Is that your home? - You've installed it at home.
She uses a broom stick for her workout.
The yellow one over there is for the chin-ups?
- The chin-ups? - Yes.
- Look at her six-pack. - My gosh.
(It's time to see her six-pack abs!)
My goodness.
It's hard for women to have a six-pack.
- Her arms look like those of men. - That's right.
(Muscular)
(Darling...)
- What is your worry then? - Exactly.
Are you just worried that she's muscular?
I think he'd want...
- his wife to be feminine... - That's right.
"Honey, are you home?"
She'd be cooking in the kitchen.
- He'd want that. - A muscular woman is chopping.
(Home sweet home.)
- That's... - She does this every day.
- Like this. - How tough.
- That's possible. - You could want the feminine...
character at first, but isn't being healthy the best?
- Exactly. - Our first kid's seven, and the second...
kid is three. When she works out, they're neglected.
The problem is, our kids copy her.
They'd carry the 2kg dumbbell...
- and drop them by accident. - Oh, dear.
Just thinking about it scares me.
Sometimes they climb up the gym ball and...
fall on their head.
(They even fell from the gym ball.)
Let's meet his wife who looks like...
Bruce Lee.
Everyone, call her "Honey".
- "Honey". - "Honey".
Hello.
- She's pretty. - She's cute.
- She's petite. - Are you the one in the picture...
who looks like Bruce Lee?
Yes, that's me.
- You're smaller than I thought. - She's very...
I could've never guessed.
- You seemed very muscular from the picture. - Right.
- You look lean and feminine. - You're cute.
Are you really addicted to fitness?
It depends on how you see it.
If I don't work out as much as I planned,
I keep thinking about it all day long.
- That is addiction. - You are addicted.
How much do you work out then?
20 minutes weight training with a chin-up bar...
and dumbbells, then 30 minutes of burpees test...
or mountain climber, so 50 minutes in the morning.
- And leg raise, crunch, - She knows all the names.
and V sit-ups for about 500 times.
Next is a hip-up workout. Bridge, donkey kick,
and extension for...
- about 300 times. - She knows the technical terms.
Aren't you done yet?
- Now... - That's about 40 minutes of workout.
When my first son comes home, after taking care of him,
I'd do a wall sit at night.
It helps with tightening your hips and thighs.
I'd hold for 10 minutes.
- She's like a trainer. - Exactly.
Aren't you exhausted after your workout?
Not doing it makes me exhausted.
- Excuse me. - Not working out exhausts me.
Those who work out struggle when they don't do it.
- My body aches. When I don't work out,
- my body aches. - Your body aches with no workout?
(My body aches from worrying about you.)
I heard your kids were injured.
- They dropped the dumbbells... - Boys get hurt...
and have had some parts explode even with protection.
(Don't kids grow up by getting hurt?)
- There are kids like that? - My kids only got...
- minor bruises from the dumbbells. - I got hurt too.
I think it's okay to get hurt a bit.
So it's not a worry in your opinion.
- Not at all. - You're looking after your kids well.
Yes. Honestly, moms...
don't look after their kids all the time.
- That's right. - They use their smartphones.
- 30 minutes pass by so quickly. - That's right.
- I do exercise during that time. - You work out.
- I work out while others watch dramas. - She has...
You look flustered now.
I am very flustered.
My wife is a good speaker.
It's because she's a good speaker.
- She neglects your kids. - Of course.
- In your opinion. - I wouldn't be here otherwise.
(I'm really worried. I'm serious.)
Do you not skip a day of workout then?
- I don't skip a day. - You didn't work out today.
- Since you don't feel well, do it here. - All right.
Do your exercise right here.
Come on out to the stage.
Her husband is worried, but we can't sympathize yet.
(The staff members even brought a chin-up bar for her!)
She does look like Bruce Lee.
What is your name?
Kim Chae Won.
- Really? Come here. - Her back muscles.
- Everyone, wait. - Her back muscles.
(We'll show you her unexpected muscles.)
- Show your back to the audience. - My gosh.
- Tighten your muscles. - Amazing.
- She's really cool. - Oh, dear.
You'll do your workout in order, right?
- I'll use the chin-up bar. - Look to your front.
- For chin-up bars... - She should show us first.
Hold it likewise...
- It's "wide grip". - It's not too hard on your body.
Yes. Women or those who do it for the first time...
It's pretty nice.
- Women... - It's not too hard on your body.
- It's pretty nice. - Yes, for women.
- Can you do it? - She's really good.
- Tae Joon, try it since you're the youngest one here.
(Her posture is perfect without swaying.)
(She has a lot of muscles.)
- Can I do it with the band? - She's so good.
Tae Joon, try it since you're the youngest one here.
- It's too low for me. - Just try.
Just try.
- No excuses. Just do it. - It's too low.
(It's easy.)
- It's low. - Dong Yeob, give it a try.
(Dong Yeob keeps hopping.)
(It's hard.)
(How adorable.)
It looks easy.
- Tae Joon. - It looks so easy.
Come all the way down to the floor. That's it.
(Yeong Ja is so powerful!)
- I knew it'd be like that. - Go up.
It's...
- I can't go up. - Lift yourself up. In 1, 2...
(The two are extremely different.)
I can't do it.
- Can someone give it a try? - I'll go.
I want to try.
Moon Byul, try.
You can do this?
Please remove it.
(Please save me.)
- Mamamoo... - Moon Byul, give it a try.
- It was not easy. - It's...
- She lifted herself so easily. - We'll find out now.
- It seemed so easy. - The band will make it easier.
That's it. Like that. It moves.
Lift yourself up.
(1! 2! 3!)
(She can barely do four chin-ups.)
She did four chin-ups.
Wait, I want to try again.
Let's see...
how many chin-ups she can do with this.
- This? - Let's see how many she can do at once.
- Good. - Try it now.
What if she does 500 chin-ups?
- She might do 100. - Until the end of the show.
- How many do you usually do? - Tae Joon, try.
I do 12 chin-ups in multiple sets.
- Doing many at once means not much. - It's not good.
- A proper posture.. - Show us.
Amazing.
Ready, go.
One,
two...
- She's cool. - It seems she's lifting effortlessly.
Three,
- four... - For chin-ups, you should come down...
slowly to stimulate your muscle growth on your back.
Five,
- six... - Her muscles move.
There's a heart.
- Sir, film her back. - There's a heart.
(I respect her!)
Look at this.
(An ordinary housewife in Korea)
(She has no fat on her arm!)
(I play games with my muscles.)
(I'm Bruce Lee of Incheon!)
- Stop. - She could keep going.
In the beginning, I could do only about three.
(I'd rather not see it.)
This time, do the one where you carry your son on your back.
- Do you want to come up? - Spread a mat.
How cute.
- He weighs a lot. - He's so cute.
That's right.
- Do I bring it? - No, just come up.
What an adorable kid.
He must have done it many times.
How adorable.
(I've seen this scene somewhere.)
She's just like a dad.
Four...
- 5, 6... - Ask the dad to do this.
- Come here. - I have a herniated lumbar disc.
He has a herniated lumbar disc.
- Eight... - He's so cute.
- Can you do it with one hand? - I can't,
- but I can do it with one leg. - She lifted one leg.
- She lifted one leg. - My goodness.
- Incredible. - He's so cute.
Just a simple push-up is hard already.
He must find his mom so reliable.
Please give her a round of applause. Thank you.
Thank you.
Take care.
- Is it that big of a concern? - It's not.
Isn't it something to brag about?
- It's nice because she's healthy. - Exactly.
We've brought a third person.
- Hello. - Hello.
(He's Jeong Hwan's coworker.)
Do you understand why he's worried?
In my opinion, I don't think it's a big concern.
(I wonder why it's a concern.)
- You think so. - Raising kids and working out...
- It's amazing. There wouldn't even be one...
- out of 10 people. - Of course not.
- That's right. - Do you want your wife...
to work out like her, or do you prefer how she is now?
Unless she tries to hit me,
I think it's okay.
I think you put a lot of effort to make life enjoyable.
No, well, thank you.
I enjoy listening to "Cultwo Show".
(I enjoy listening to your radio show.)
(We compliment your wit.)
He must be a fan of your show.
We've met your coworker.
Even he envies you.
- She's cool, and she's nicely built. - That's right.
- She's satisfied too. - Why I'm upset is...
because...
my father died from cancer about 2 to 3 years ago.
My sister died from myocardial infarction...
5 months after that.
After that, I got a trauma...
- of health. - You're worried.
It's so bad...
that I go back home if I can't reach my wife...
for an hour.
I'd open the door and see her there,
then I'd go back to work.
She's healthy though.
- Exactly. - It's my trauma and my concern.
(I don't want to lose you after my dad and my sister.)
In fact, I think it's got to do with your satisfaction.
- Your body changed because of your husband. - Right.
You want to show off your body on SNS.
I'm guessing you must be really satisfied with such.
I want to show off that I built my shape...
by working out at home.
Getting compliments online makes me really happy.
- That's right. - It makes me happy.
It's something I can show off,
and it motivates me too.
However, I'm worried that that's all you think about.
Do you think your wife doesn't really care about you...
and that she neglects you?
Isn't that why you sent the story?
I have Crohn's disease.
Diet is very important.
- What my wife does is harmful... - I see.
to me because she buys bread and a lot of stuff.
When she brings them home, she only eats this much.
- Your wife does. - In the evening,
she brings me the bread with milk every day.
As a result, I gained about 20kg since I got married.
(He gained 20kg.)
- After eating continuously... - 20kg?
- He wants it. - He shouldn't have it though.
She gives everything after eating only a bit.
You buy the groceries you want, not for your husband.
You only eat a little bit...
then throw away the rest to your husband's mouth.
- Throw away... - Exactly.
Before he goes to bed.
That must be a worry for him.
That is. It must be upsetting.
I didn't express it, but I was upset.
(Please take care of me, not your muscles.)
Are you planning to keep building...
more muscles and care about your body?
This is like an anti-depressant for me.
What? When were you depressed?
When I was pregnant with my second child,
my father-in-law passed away.
My husband's Crohn's disease worsened,
so he was hospitalized.
I overcame my depression and delivered my baby,
but my sister-in-law passed away four days later.
I relied on her more than anyone else,
but I couldn't even go to her funeral.
I couldn't tell him that I was depressed.
- You couldn't tell him. - His dad passed away,
and his sister passed away five months later.
I kept suppressing my emotions. But at one point,
I wanted to die.
I just hoped my life was over.
- You became extreme. - Yes.
I spent days crying.
So you overcame the difficulty through working out.
When I sweated, I became more awake.
That's why I started working out more often.
When I worked out a lot, I worked out for six hours.
But I realized my children were being neglected.
So I started doing only short and intense workouts.
So now I only work out when I have free time.
- She's very wise. - I think...
I think she should be worried because her husband...
- doesn't understand her. - Right.
You feel sad, don't you?
A little bit.
(So it wasn't just me who was having a hard time.)
How do you feel after hearing everything?
Now I feel sorry to her.
I was blinded by my own sadness,
and I couldn't be more considerate of her.
But still, there's something else I'm not happy about.
I feel like I'm living with a lumber.
- I used to hug her a lot in the past. - A lumber.
- She's like a lumber. - But it hurts now.
A lumber?
I can't let her rest her head on my arm now.
(It hurts his arm too much.)
When you go on a trip, you don't have to work out.
Do you feel terrible if you don't?
I feel uncomfortable.
- What? - I feel uneasy about it.
- You feel uneasy. - Yes. If I don't do it.
This is what happens when you're obsessed.
- You feel like you have to do it. - Right.
Perhaps once or twice a week,
you can go for a stroll with your family.
I hope you will find balance.
I am worried about your husband.
Sharing good food with the people you love...
- That's happiness. - and doing small talk...
makes you really happy. And it's also happy to...
visit good restaurants when you're on a trip.
Tell her what you want.
I hope you will work out a little less.
I hope your body will become a little more normal.
- I've never heard of such story. - Through this...
I know.
I got to know that you've been depressed.
When things get tough, talk to me, Sunny.
- Sunny? - I want to help you.
And I love you.
(I love my Sunny.)
(We hope their future will be filled with sunshine.)
- They're sweet. - Mamamoo.
Do you think it's a worry or not?
I don't think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a worry either.
If they become more considerate, they'll be fine.
I also don't think it's a worry.
I think one way to solve this problem is...
to find a hobby they can both enjoy.
I don't think it's a worry.
I want to cheer for them.
I thought you were very lovely.
If you think it must've been a worry of him,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Stop.
- He's lucky. - Not too many people voted.
I know.
(She's happy.)
Could you tell that you didn't get many votes?
Goodness.
- 24 votes. - You heard what he had to say.
What do you want to tell him?
I will take time off once a week.
- Great. - We're moving to a bigger house.
Please buy me a bench press machine.
A wife is asking her husband for a bench press machine.
I love you.
(Grow your love like you grow your muscles.)
They came out with a worry, but they look happy.
I was going to quit if this couple was frustrating too.
Let's check how many votes they got.
Please reveal the result.
(The result)
Goodness.
(What's the score?)
It's 35.
(They got 35 votes.)
"Smoke-stained Life" won this week.
Congratulations. We will give them a gift certificate.
Until the day we are all worry-free,
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you! - Thank you!
("Don't Wanna Cry" by Seventeen)